An excellent resolution for the new year would be to add meditation to your self care routine.
If you can’t meditate every day, why not resolve to meditate on Mondays? Meditation Mondays — that’s easy to remember.
Meditation is so good for you! It can help you reduce stress, alleviate depression and anxiety, improve your memory and prep your mind for better decision-making. Many report that meditation helps them sleep better and make mindful choices. It can even build up your immune system! Continue reading
It happens. You had planned to go out for New Year’s Eve…but the weather turned out to be too dreadful. Or you or someone in the family isn’t feeling well. Whatever the reason, you’re home this year for New Year’s Eve and it’s going to be a quiet evening. But you still want to celebrate! How to make the best of it?
This is something a little different to try, if you haven’t tried ASMR before.
This YouTuber, ASMR Darling, has assembled a variety of Christmas items. Along with her voice, she uses the items in this video to produce sensory effects that can spur a pleasant and relaxing response in many people. She receives millions of views for her amusing and well-produced ASMR videos.
Watching and listening to the “triggers” in a video like this can make you feel relaxed or sleepy. Some of the sounds might make you feel shivery or tingly (but not in an unpleasant way). Others might not elicit a response. Everyone is different. I recommend you listen to this video using headphones to take advantage of the binaural effects.
I hope you enjoy it! It’s an innocent, free, holiday pleasure!
I especially like the tapping…and the Christmas tree! Let me know if you had any tingles!
Here is a lovely, guided meditation from Peaceful Meditations that offers a soothing and creative spoken script facilitating visualization of beautiful Christmas imagery, accompanied by soft, background Christmas music.
I hope you can take time to relax and make meditation a part of your self care this holiday season.
Did you know that 1 in 5 people cope with a mental illness, such as depression or anxiety? And that 1 in 10 people are in recovery from addiction? If you have one of these challenges, you are not alone. And you may know that Christmas can be an especially stressful time, and that stress can make these conditions worse.
Even if you do not have one of these conditions, if you are spending Christmas alone, you may feel anxious or down about it. Or maybe you just find getting together with your family to be a bit stressful.
Well, it is stressful. Christmas Day is the number one day of the year for heart attacks. The second highest is the day after Christmas.
That’s why everyone needs a self-care plan for Christmas. Your self-care plan should remind yourself that you have value and provide for resources in case you need them. Talk with a therapist, sponsor, relative or friend about your Christmas Day self-care plan. This builds in a measure of accountability.
Here’s an example of a self-care plan for Christmas.
What other ideas do you have for a Christmas self-care plan?
This year, I have been learning and practicing meditation and mindfulness as part of my self care and personal development. I wanted to share this gratitude meditation. It’s only 5 minutes long.
If you feel your attention wandering, just notice the feeling or thought and turn your attention back to your breath. It’s normal to feel distracted or think of other things.
Are you having one of those years? We’ve all been there, one time or another. You are not alone and support is available.
Here is a short list of places that are offering free Thanksgiving meals and fellowship for people who are in recovery, are experiencing homelessness or are coping with financial challenges or other problems.
Have a Happy Thanksgiving, and keep on keeping on!
- Sheltered and unsheltered homeless people can enjoy a meal at The Embry Rucker Shelter in Reston (next to the Reston Public Library) at no cost. Call for more information (703) 437-1975.
- The Unity Club in Falls Church City is a hub for 12-step meetings and fellowship in recovery. They are offering a free, potluck Thanksgiving meal from 2 p.m. – 5 p.m. You can sign up in advance to bring a dish of your choosing, but it’s not required.
- The Salvation Army serves a free meal, the Safeway Feast of Sharing, on Wednesday, the day BEFORE Thanksgiving, to more than 5,000 people at the Walter E. Convention Center in Washington, DC.